No woman wants to admit that she chose her ex-boyfriends for sex and her husband for stability but that is often the case. Those women know they are sharing the Alpha and accept that as the natural order.
No matter the circumstance it is in the nature of every Beta female to submit to the Alpha male.
The truth is that she also wants a rocking sex life and the powerful Alpha.
But she has come to grips with the need to make trade-offs and convince herself, her man and society that she isn't settling. A lot of what Beta males regard as inconsistency in women's behaviour is in fact just a reflection of the reality that there are a different set of rules for Alphas.
Nor does he go around telling everyone he is an Alpha.
The Alpha male is more rare than most people think - less than one in ten men.
He has the physical and mental strength to establish the rules and enforce compliance, but he only does so when necessary.
Mental and emotional strength are at least as important as his physical characteristics.
To the extent that the Betas do enjoy some sexual experiences it is on the woman's terms and implicitly as a second priority to any sexual attention sought by the Alpha.
And they emphatically do not feel compelled to fit any stereotype or prove themselves beyond the limited requirement to establish their rule.
It is beneath the true Alpha to puff out his chest to impress his friends.
The nature of the Alpha male is often poorly understood.
First and foremost he is a leader, protector, provider, enforcer and arbiter of justice among his pack.